LOL, you guys have my genuine sympathy here, BUT...I'd like to suggest that you are misguided.
You see there really is nothing specific to understand about women that does not exactly apply to men, we are all human.
Except this; the sexual/gender tension is all about power. Power and seduction is the name of the game, its as simple as that.
Everyone wanting power, few willing to share it is at the core of the problem. Men have power so women use seduction, then women gain power, and so men start looking for a manual on 'How to understand Woman'...so that really and truly they can set about rebalancing the scales of power to their favor.
And this merry game continues ad infinitum, until a truce is drawn to form a cozy alliance called a relationship or marriage. Drawing the right truce
is key, then everyone just gets on with life accordingly.