A CTL of 1 means that thoughtmanifest is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
Thanks Decius for your feedback. I should have clarified that I was referring to life in general. In relationships there has to be a give and take in terms of points of views expressed and concessions made in order to determine the best course of action for the relationship. But sometimes there are circumstances where a couple is butting heads and neither individual is willing, or perhaps able due to programming, to submit to the other's beliefs. It is more in reference to situations like that where my partner is of the opinion that someone has to be the 'ultimate ruler'.
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A CTL of 1 means that Attolia is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
Having a leader keeps a group organized and secure, but in terms of a couple....that's a tough one. Decisions will lie in the hands of the leading partner, which may or may not please the other. Having one partner dominate the other may be a way of getting issues resolved without too much hassle. So subservience may not always be a sign of weakness.
"How can we be just in a world without mercy and merciful in a world without justice?"