Naivety in men

The lyrics of this song,"Going Under" by "Evanescence" remind me of my naivety when i gave my heart and soul to a man, who jsut abused it. I was a lass with a fairytale romance planned out in her head. My eyes were opened and i was introduced to the real world of relationships, where nothing is quite as it seems, and you will get hurt!

Now I will tell you what I've done for you
50,000 tears I've cried
Screaming,
Deceiving,
And bleeding for you
And you still won't hear me
Don't want your hand this time
I'll save myself
Maybe I'll wake up for once
Not tormented daily defeated by you
Just when I thought I'd reach the bottom

(Chorus)
I... dive again
I'm going under
Drowning in you
I'm falling forever
I've got to break through
I'm...going under

Blurring and stirring the truth and the lies
So I don't know what's real and what's not
Always confusing the thoughts in my head
So I can't trust myself anymore

I... dive again
I'm going under
Drowning in you
I'm falling forever
I've got to break through,

so go on and scream
Scream at me, so far away
I won't be broken again
I've got to breathe
I can't keep going under

I... dive again
I'm going under
Drowning in you
I'm falling forever
I've got to break through,
I'm, going under
Going under
I'm going under

I like Evanescence. The lead singer kind of reminds me of Sarah MacLaughlin with an edge.

Anyway, nothing I can say but choose wisely who you put your trust in ('cause there are a lot of icky people who will think nothing of abusing it), but try not to get so disillusioned because mutual love between two people isn't completely out of reach. Compromise, tough times, and yes - hurt, I believe come with any relationships. Even the best of relationship will have its misunderstandings, its up and downs (unfortunately). So long as there is no intentional abuse (mental, emotional, and/or physical), which I think the song you posted is implying there was, communication and understanding is probably the key to getting through those times.

If there's hint of lack of respect and abuse, run the other way as fast as you possibly can.

Keep your chin up, girl!

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You miss them because they took your faith, and you hate them because they took your faith.

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So very true.

well not really they can never take yiur fath only your trust, but only if you let them. they never take it willingly you just let them you see i under stand men cause i am one so i know but the others make good points.

i'll never forget my first love ...yet wish i could cuz now that i think about him its like what was i thinking but like decius said don't let some one take away your faith of having another good relationship and don't ever let any one destroy your trust for another person you think is absolutely perfect for you because it takes a long time to learn how to do that again and yet you still learn from the experience of bein in a relationship with some one so going into the next you less nieve about what you think might happen its like your starting to be able to say been there done that and i'm soooo over it so good luck in your long search for prince charming and don't let one person and thier memory bring ya down ....and don't ya think decius is just so dreamy

naivity is not a word it's naivete with ' accents over the two e's i believe - pronounced NI-ee-vih-tay