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Why Condone Fruitless Deviant Behavior?

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Decius

You have a fallacy in your statement:

"Beneficial-in that heterosexuality allows reproduction.

It benefits both parties-regardless of sexual preference. You cannot go around this truth--or claim it not to be true. Because it is.. "

Not all heterosexuals can reproduce, and not all heterosexuals choose to reproduce. Hence, in accordance to the altered question:

"What benefits do homosexuals provide heterosexuals that can and choose to reproduce?"

The answer is:

"Exactly the same benefits heterosexuals that cannot or choose not to reproduce do."

Hence, the discussion then becomes:

"Why condone fruitless behaviour?", fruitless behaviour being sexual relations without the ability or desire to reproduce, which has little to do with homosexuals.


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Ironwood

Makes sense to me. I've said it twenty times now too.

He's given two definitions of beneficial, homosexuals meet them both, what else can be said.


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Decius

I would also like to extend your definition of "fruitless behaviour" to include:

Oral sex
Anal sex
Masturbation
Joint masturbation
Sex using condoms
Sex using the pill
Sex using any birth control method
The "pull out" before ejaculation
Abstinence

... most of which I'm certain many heterosexual as well as homosexual people partake in.


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Wyote

so then, why condone all these activities? thats easy, sexual activity of any kind is an important role in the way humans function. the ability to choose how active or inactive is also something that can help define who we are as individuals.

reproduction is an important part of society, but i think it is somewhat seperate from sexual activity. sex (homo or hetero) is useful in that it helps release chemicals in the body that help us with brain fuction as well as making us feel good. and as humans we strive to be intelligent and to feel good. if you need somebody with the same sex or somebody of a different sex to get that release then hey, go for it.

with the technology we have now, everyone could be homosexual and it wouldnt much matter aside from some shifts with gender roles which may or may not pose problems.


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ekimup

Not all heterosexuals can reproduce, and not all heterosexuals choose to reproduce. Hence, in accordance to the altered question:
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..i believe i stated heterosexuality.


so this altering of questions..is irrelevant. Hence, you should thoroughly investigate my point-and attempt to find "true flaw" in the fact. k thanx.



its because heterosexuals can argue homosexuality to be fruitless.-homosexuals cannot argue heterosexuality to be fruitless.


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Ironwood

quote:
..i believe i stated heterosexuality.


A male and female having sex does not make them heterosexuals, they are performing hetero sex, they may be of any sexual preferrence or sexuality. This is a flaw in your logic.

Its ok to call homosexuality fruitless in terms of childbaring as an act, but not as fruitless as a lifestyle and existance.


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rancidkitty26

so people who cant have children for some reason.......should they just never have sex because they cant produce an offspring??????

that whole....its wrong because it doesnt produce children theory is pretty weak guys.........there are many sex acts that wont produce children among heteros.......are all those wrong too

havent you ever had protected sex
or given or recievd oral??????

come on.......find a better argument than the whole reproduction thing


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Decius

Lets get back to a realistic point in this discussion now, since I do believe we all agree that it is incorrect to state that any sexual act that does not result in offspring is wrong.

Here's a question...

If homosexuality IS a choice, should it be systematically eliminated from humanity?


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Ironwood

quote:
If homosexuality IS a choice, should it be systematically eliminated from humanity?


In my opinion, no.

Because it is not physically harmful.

And emotional states or bad behavior from any homosexuals cannot be accurately attributed to being caused by homosexuality any more than criminal heteros being criminal from being hetero.

Especially when social intolerance is not being factored, because that affects crime, poverty, and emotional health.


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Decius

I would say if it IS a choice, it should be eliminated, because it creates an unnecessary diversity amongst people.

Also, it seems "unnatural" from the standpoint of nature and how our bodies are made.

Finally, we dont know what effect integrating homosexuals into normal environments as families would do (ie, their children and what not)

Theoretically, having a loving mother and father is more balanced than having two fathers.


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Ironwood

quote:
I would say if it IS a choice, it should be eliminated, because it creates an unnecessary diversity amongst people.


It creates nothing, its exists. Diversity exists, negative feelings about diversity comes through those who will not accept it as part of natural society, usually due to any number of manifestations of fear of that which is different. Fear that, untill homosexuality is proven to be harmful, is irrational.

And it would be no more guilty of creating diversity than heterosexuality does by not allowing for any deviation which does exist.

By being eliminated it would then be made illegal, which would eliminate nothing and only criminalize more human curiosity and experimentation (that will persist regardless), as well as attempt to eliminate the unknown possible to probable benefits or even necessities to having such diversity or even choice.

What you suggest also suggests that cultures should not differ, because of the creation of diversity. I would never force myself to eat crazy shit on Fear Factor (unless on Fear Factor for good money), doesn't mean I shouldn't or that it should be illegal or eliminated. Under the right circumstances it could be necessary for survival.

Nor would I force my child's hand in marriage, but some cultures do, even against homosexual marriage.

Since I understand homosexuality to have been normal and accepted practice, or more appropriately all sexuality, I cannot defend the instinctive notion people present on the most sensible argument, that it seems unnatural.

This is a nature nurture debate in that at some point in some culture either homosexuality began and or became accepted or unaccepted.

Basically what I'm submitting is the perspective that we must keep in mind that there is a strong prejudice against homosexuality in large culture groups that have political and social influence. That colors the argument and is the environment in and or out of our individual households that most of us were born into.

So there is another perfectly realistic explanation to people's negative outlook on homosexuality. Prejudice, Blacks in America and Hitler and Stalin types are all the example needed in the strength and extents to which prejudice can achieve.

I would say never to be quicker to trust instincts of intolerance over tolerance.

As for the family issue, though the focus is on parenting, I'd like to remind that all homosexuals come from families of some sort.

But that they also have raised and helped raise children like siblings, their own or "adopted" children, with both possitive and negative results like any other.

I've already also mentioned that life already creates situations where mothers or fathers are killed or where multiple types of role models exist in big families, or when living with grandparents.

Resisting natural diversity is most likely futile anyway, whereas rethinking negative conotations may not.

But thats just speculation of course.


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Wyote

if it is a choice, there is no reason for it to be eliminated unless it is proven that it causes different (negative) effects than hetero sex does.

as usual this ties in to a lot of other discussions. it would seem that having both a mother and a father is more balanced, yet the affects of having two mothers or two fathers may have advantages not yet known.

pretty much what leftwood said.


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Decius

I dissagree.

We're not talking about making it illegal... I am merely looking at it as if it is a mental impurity... similar to pedaphilia or necrophilia. If it is a choice, and it is biologically unnatural, then to me there is no reason for it to exist.

Does that mean we should eliminate any variety of sex that seems biologically unnatural?

no, because such events are generally occasional deviances from biologically sound sexual activity.

But if you are homosexual, then that means you will more often than not engage in "unnatural" sexual activity, which to me would mean that it is a mental impurity.

Specifically because your mind and desires are not following what you are physically equipped to do... this to me makes it an unnatural situation.

...All assuming it is a mental choice.


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Wyote

maybe im going off on this a bit too far. but it seems from that logic none of us should be doing much of anything aside from eat, sleep, think. the more complex a mind the more likely deviances will occur. humans have the most complex brains and have the most deviances. perhaps at some point certain deviances become traits. like having brown hair, except it involves the brain.


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Astarte

Sex...hmm....

You know if homosexuality is proven to be genetic, we're all wrong. Many of the great artists and scholars of history were homosexual, is that really a mental impurity if they still contributed greatly to the progress of mankind?

What if I consider oral sex to be wrong, your body isn't designed to get anything out of that - actually, doing that could lead to serious passing of infections and whatnot because of the nature of genetalia, given that reproductive bodily fluids have a higher acidity than that of saliva in the mouth, that is really biologically backwards. But we do it anyway, well some of us that is, is that wrong?

I don't see homosexuality as being a product of molestation or some sort of abnormal abuse, that's a gross assumption of the entire homosexual population in the world. There are animals that are homosexual, the latest being some special group of goats that commit homosexual acts - were THEY molested too?

The original post is all fruitless if you ask me. I have plent of gay and lesbian friends and I'll tell you they are quite healthy and far from what they're being accused of, this mental illness business. That's a terrible thing to say.


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