I like her but I hate her tattoo...

There's this girl I really get along with and like but she has this big tattoo that I really don't like. I'm not into tattoos to begin with but if it's tasteful and well done I don't mind. The one she has I find it distracting to the point of being turned off.

I feel a little bad for feeling this way and I wish she hadn't done it. Obviously I can't tell her how I feel about it because I don't want to upset her. It's a really bold tattoo.

I'm not going to describe it for her anonymity.

I guess its just personal taste but i love girls with tattoos....but some tattoos on girls look a bit stupid.

how big is her tattoo... it must be quite detracting if this is all that's putting you off her.

What turns you off about it? Do you feel like being with someone "like" that is going out of your comfort zone?

When ever I find myself in a situation where there is something that I find dis-pleasurable about someone, I try to see if I can allow my mind to feel pleasureable about it instead.

Next time your with her try to get turned on by it idk...

Do you find it skanky?

No it's not a skanky tattoo it's just distracting. I feel like if I was having sex with her and I saw it it would take me out of the moment because it's that bold. I feel like an asshole for feeling this way. I'm not into tattoos to begin with but if a girl had a big one I guess I would want it to be really pretty like some flowers and not something really specific and directing that's not open to much interpretation.

It's a turn off.

You know what women do when they encounter a turn off in a guy?

Yep, they do a 180 and search elsewhere.

Being with her against your own feeling is a sign of personal weakness. Be bold.

Leave.