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She doesn't want to call it love.
Ok this is mainly reaching out to women on this sight but, I have been seeing my girlfriend for nearly 6 months now, before I had just been having one night sort of things (don't really need to elaborate) so I have never had a relationship of this kind before.
Last week when I stayed over her house for the first time, (I'm 17, she's 16, but this isn't her first long term relationship) she said that she wanted "to leave the whole love thing" and not bother with it. I think she could tell I was a bit taken aback because she then said that she did feel that way about me but didn't want to call it "Love." Does this mean she merely said that to make me feel better? Does she still "love" me? What other ways are there for me to express it without scaring her off?
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Oh she likes you a lot she's just doing what she thinks will make her feel less scared about it. let her call it whatever she wants just treat her the way you usually do and let your feelings enjoy the ride!
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No reason to throw around the world love if you're in a physical relationship. Something you might start throwing around before you ask her to marry you. In my high school days it was ALMOST a requirement for a healthy relationship (retarded). If she didn't want to be with you, you'd be getting the cold shoulder. If you ever do, you'll know without having to look too hard she's lost interest. Don't over think it, instead focus on all of the attribute that attract you to her. GL p.s.: insecurities are unquestionably the greatest detriment to any relationship. So like I said.. focus on her.
"Draw from your past, but do not let your past draw from you."