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How fast to take things

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1 Posts / 26M
     :   19yrs   :  
SFUFetus

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The girl I like is one of those girls that seems to flirt with everyone. She has like 5 or 6 guys that THINK they can get with her because she is a flirt. I'm one of those guys. I don\\\'t have a problem with this I'm not a jealous guy. However, the other day I asked her to prom and she accepted. This puts me ahead of all those other guys but I'm wondering how fast I should move from here. We aren\\\'t really friends outside of school and I don't want to wait too long and get put into the friend category, but I don\\\'t want to move too fast and freak her out. What is a good pace for me to take this relationship at so I don't move too fast for her and I don't go right into being a "friend" Oh yeah, she may just be the most beautiful girl in the school.


40 Posts / 26M
     :   19yrs   :  
Endless Feed

I'm not that social, but im gussing that if you make a move soon, the sooner the better, i would say. After the prom i would say go from there, if you had a good time with her, ask her for another date. Hope that has helped.


1309 Posts / 42M
     :   20yrs   :  
Cynic-Al

i'd second that, see how things go at ur prom and try for a second date if it works out. you can also try socialising with her outside of school a bit, invite her along with ur group of friends to something and stuff like that.


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