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Boyfriend Drama

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2 Posts / 30M
     :   24yrs   :  
harlow

Boyfriend Drama [+ favourites]

I just moved out of my apartment that I shared with my boyfriend. I did it cuz he decided to break up with me. Then the next day he wanted to get back together. I love him and we have been together for 4years. But sometimes I wonder if there is someone out there that is better. We have a history od fighting, and hurting each other, emotinaly. He doesn't call me, and he isn't making an effort to be with me. He is all sweet and kind now. But I don't want to be taken advantage of anymore. So what do I do. Everyone tells me to break up with him. But after four years, it's hard to let go. I won't advice from someone who doesn't know either of us. So if you have any advice please let me know. Thanks


"Know who you are, and never let anyone tell you other wise."

15 Posts / 32M
     :   28yrs   :  
Harper Lee

harlow, I am going to pass onto you the best advice I have ever received, “ You already know the answer, you’re just arguing with yourself now.”


130 Posts / 42M
     :   19yrs   :  
spiderz

get rid of the bastrad.


"There is a thin line between bravery and stupidity"

10 Posts / 32M
     :   21yrs   :  
poser_kozer

Walk up to him....pull down his pants and suck his balls. He wont break up with you.


343 Posts / 46M
     :   19yrs   :  
her

crude.


"I have nothing to be proud of today but hopefully tomorrow I will."

62 Posts / 44M
     :   30yrs   :  
Praetor

If you're not sure, stay with him, but at the first sign of you fighting again, talk to him about it, tell him if it keeps happening, it'll be over. If he changes for the better, good, if not, you can always be on the lookout for someone else. There are always more fish in the sea, sometimes you just have to cast out a little farther.


"What's the point in not conforming, if it changes you?"

66 Posts / 41M
     :   22yrs   :  
firstright89

people dont change without magic magic=a kid not marriage or anything less


"choose to be happy today"

6 Posts / 30M
     :   19yrs   :  
asherownsyou

people change.


""The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.""

1 Posts / 29M
     :   16yrs   :  
droeskeez

TO ANY ONE WHO CAN HELP~~~~~~~[u] I LIKE DIS GUY, BUT EVERYTIME I CALL HIM, HE DOESNT ANSWER , HE SAYS HE WANTS TO TALK , BUT I DONT KNOW HE NEVER ANSWERS MY CALLS WHAT SHOULD I DO????


"always save best for last"

2 Posts / 29M
     :   26yrs   :  
toomanytimes

As you have probably heard from others, you know for yourself that things just aren't right. It's true that you have to make relationships work and that there will always be ups and downs. Just think about it this way... does he spend more time making you feel loved or hurting you emotionally? The pros should out-weigh the cons.


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