Cuteness- inborn or bred?

there are also studies of non-usual parts of human behaviour. but thats a different story.

so what do people think about the idea of the sexually attractive type of cute? what makes someone cute (male or female)?

"I tried coding in cocoa but it ran between the keys and shorted my pc"

No! Don't go off into sexual cuteness! There are too many threads on that anyway. Focus on infants!

Does cuteness increase chances of survival in the human world?

"How can we be just in a world without mercy and merciful in a world without justice?"

If cuteness increases survival chances then it is only because of the shallowness of humanity. If cuteness matters then by extension fashion matters and people will continue to hurt themselves in order to be cute, attractive, and sexy or whatever the current term is for whichever given age group.

"Speak out, even if what you have to say is unpopular"

"Only shallow people don't judge by looks." Oscar Wilde.

It's not shallow considering we're humans that judge our world through our senses. There's nothing wrong with wanting to portray a certain image of yourself through your looks. It's wrong when you hurt yourself too much.

"How can we be just in a world without mercy and merciful in a world without justice?"

It is shallow if a baby must look a certain way in order to be loved. And consequently it is no surprise to find that girls want to hurt themselves in order to also be loved.

"Speak out, even if what you have to say is unpopular"

Love is blind. Especially mother's love. I'm not implying that cuteness is required to receive love, but it certainly is a factor. Any girl would be more loved if she was beautiful vs. not as beautiful. That's reality (compared to idealism.)

Of course it's not a surprise that men and women hurt themselves to look a certain way. Our clothes and appearance speak for us in the social world. You can't deny that.

"How can we be just in a world without mercy and merciful in a world without justice?"

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Any girl would be more loved if she was beautiful vs. not as beautiful. That's reality

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Of course it's not a surprise that men and women hurt themselves to look a certain way. Our clothes and appearance speak for us in the social world.

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"Speak out, even if what you have to say is unpopular"

The definition of beautiful and cute are subjective. But each society has its own definitions. In our culture, big eyes and a big head can make a baby look cute. If people base their lives entirely on the limits of their community's defintion of beauty, they should change. (Albeit, so must the whole hollywood industry.)

"How can we be just in a world without mercy and merciful in a world without justice?"

hollywood doesnt have to change for us to, we jsut have to pay less attention to hollywood.
to prevent this turning into the "jeans and high heels are paionful" thread. what makes a person cute in a sexually attractive way. is there a specific look that you would use cute for instead of handsome or beautiful? what makes them cute instead of any other description?

"I tried coding in cocoa but it ran between the keys and shorted my pc"

Young things are usualy cute - and I do believe this perception is in our DNA.

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If cuteness increases survival chances then it is only because of the shallowness of humanity.

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"A fool says I know and a wise man says I wonder."

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hollywood doesnt have to change for us to, we jsut have to pay less attention to hollywood.

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"How can we be just in a world without mercy and merciful in a world without justice?"

Why must a battle be necessary? We made Hollywood and we can undo it if we stop feeding it constantly. Hollywood need not be weakened in order to break it; people need to be strengthened instead.

"Speak out, even if what you have to say is unpopular"

This is why I believe in the Internet - Here we discuss and decide what Cuteness is - it isn't being decided for us.

"A fool says I know and a wise man says I wonder."

true, we are also discussing however where we have gotten our ideas of it from.

to battle hollywood, we do need to be strengthened, battling hollywood does just mean ignoring it. if we dont pay attentino to it it will dissappear.

"I tried coding in cocoa but it ran between the keys and shorted my pc"