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It is difficult to judge your situation without seeing your budget, and I really don't want to see it, nor do I believe you want to show it to me. How much is enough? I had a friend in school who used to go to school barefoot because his parents couldn't afford to buy him shoes. When it got cold, they managed to get an old pair of shoes for him, but one year he was wearing brand new shoes, they were girls shoes though (it never made since to me but for some reason girls shoes were cheaper). He was so proud of his new shoes. Well, we teased him, even I did and I got into the worst of trouble for it because I was his best friend and hurt him the worst. Anyways - he was happy with what he had even though it wasn't enough, and if you have enough you should be happy with that and if you can't be and you want more, it wouldn't matter how much more you had, it wouldn't be enough. For most of us, happiness is a choice we make. I imagine you watch Tv, if you do, pay attention to what it is saying to you, it is always telling you that you need more, that you don't have enough. If you just had a big mac, a pepsi, one of those new cars, etc, etc. The media keeps telling us that we need, need, need things that we don't need, and so we want, want, want things that we don't need believing it will make us happy, but unfortunately we can't afford it all. There I bet is the problem - but then again, I don't know that for sure, I haven't seen your budget.
"A fool says I know and a wise man says I wonder."
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