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Best thing to do is remember why you got together with her in the first place. Find those things about her that make her more special than any other girl you've had or could have. Try something new like kristo said. Act like you would if you were originally trying to get her, the more you put into a relationship the more you'll get out of it. Next time you see her grab her and give her the best kiss oyu ever have (maybe more, depending on your relationship) and she'll be totally swept up, but don't leave it at that make time to go out and have dates, maybe find something you guys can do together. Couples line dancing or something.. just kidding.. or maybe i'm not..