OKAY, HERE IS A FEMALE RESPONSE TO THE QUESTION:
Chelsea, honey, you are so very young, your body is changing so fast. your mind is changing so fast. your body is very affected by the mind.
~Can your orgasm with oral sex?
~How do you make yourself orgasm?
~Is it clitoral stimulation or vaginal? sometimes, both is the best.
~if you are able to orgasm by masturbating with your hand, you should be able to orgasm having sex...
~BUT, THE MOST IMPORTANT THING:
***YOU MUST BE RELAXED ENOUGH TO LET IT HAPPEN...***
**YOUR MIND MUST NOT BE THINKING ABOUT ANYTHING BUT WHAT YOU ARE FEELING...**
~if you rub your clit when you masterbate, rub your clit while your boyfriend is fucking you... eventually he should start to do it for you.
~You could try to get in positions where your clit rubs against his body while you fuck...
~Get on top, have him enter you and keep his hand on your clitoris and he can hold his dick in the proper position if needed, you lean back with your hands on his legs, arch your back (but don't hurt yourself) - sometimes, you can touch a sensitive spot in this position. he might not feel much... but if you keep moving, you certainly will feel it.
~Bend over with your ass in the air (RELAX) have him eat your pussy in this position... his chin rubs against your clit, his nose brushes your ass (SHOWER) and his tongue can go wherever...it's great...
~when in doubt, lick your hand and rub on your clit while being fucked... rub however you need to rub...