conversation I had with a myspace female

theres no point in this thread strangler. i wish so badly that sex would get out of the internet, magazines and even everyday conversation. its something to be discussed with friends and lovers not parading filth. your insecurities are so obvious it hurts

im a guy, and even i can see that any female on the recieveing end of an apporach like that would be likely to completely switch of to the idea of going out with the person who made it. i have no claim at being a "ladies man" or even half capable around girls, but i do have a steady gf ive been going out with for about 16 months.
the advice id give, is try and make some friends who are girls. make friends with the girls you dont fancy, then through them you can get to understand the complicated female mind (a bit). i know it sounds slightly like ur using one girl to get to another, but as long as your a decent friend to them its fine, friends help each other. but female friends are useful because they can tell you what your doing wrong, people here are okay, but they dont actually physically see you around women, so dont know what your like. it worked for me though, most of my friends are girls, my gf and i were good friends for over a year before we started going out. mayb like me your just not particularly good at first impressions, and people need time to get to know you.

"So Schrodinger's Cat is not only neither dead nor alive, but might also be sexually aroused by elbows and peanut butter?"

yeah, your approach is horrid. if any guy, and several have, ever approached me lke that i would find their address, go to their house in the middle of the night and murderer them in their sleep. its just disgusting. and about the lezbian porn if that person lokks at this, thats gross. im straight. I dont care how many lez friends i have (and i have several) i do not aprove of that way of life but they can continue it all they want. and i agree with the person who says sex needs to stay between friends and lovers. i completley agree.

"I'd rather be superstitious about jumping jacks than superstitious that I needed to be drunk to do what I needed to do, or that I needed to have a specific pair of underwear on - jumping jacks, you don't need anything. - Gerard Way"

there is a certain point to which bluntness works, and that point is the "i'm a celebrity, and u want to sleep with me for that reason (and that reason only) and however i talk to you wont change that". subtlety is a good thing 90% of the time. if a gril responds to your approach, she is almost certainly not the girl you want to end up with.

"So Schrodinger's Cat is not only neither dead nor alive, but might also be sexually aroused by elbows and peanut butter?"

why not just hang out with members of the same sex as friends? Once you get into a friends zone with a female there is almost no going out. Females go for the players/badboys/jerks/assholes that treat them and everything around the like shit, hence why the ncie guys always lose.

Alot of guys are used for sex but they never complain. An example is being the rebound guy, how many times do you hear guys complaining about that? Also what about the young sluts boinking married middle aged men? Do you think the slut actually thinks a relationship will happen or the guy cares for her anything past sex? Life revolves around sex, face it.

and if you think life doesnt revovle aorund sex look at the media or watch a reality tv show and tell me that. Hell just look at all the prostitutes, porn satrs, and strippers that spend their entire life devoted to sex and to pleasing males.

On varous relationship forums, many of the male posters say guys always want sex and only a relationship happens afterwards and guys do everything to get sex. me personally I want sex cause Im horny but wouldnt mind a relationship as well to get sex on a regular basis and have a trophy around my arm when im walking tot he park. O and a sugar momma would be nice.

i never said there was anything wrong with having m8s the same sex as you as well. the only reason i have more female friends than male is cos i get one with them better.

the reason you think girls go for the players and bad boys, is cos it seems women have a tendancy to have either brains or looks, the really attractive ones go for the players/bad boys, is cos they have the same amount of shit for brains. then the smart ones are ugly. go for the middle ground, if you can tear your eyes away from the 2 really beatiful girls who you cant ignore and look around a bit, ull find that there are a couple of girls who are nearly as good looking, but arent complete bimbo slappers.

as for being friends witha female, there is less chance of going out with them afterwards yeah, so make friends with one you dont fancy, to get to understand the one you do. anyway, i prove its not totally impossible to go with a girl you've bin m8s with. also a friend of mine went out with a girl he was friends with before he went out with her.

if ur gonna get a girl you like, and think your one of the nice guys who dont get the tarts who're in it for the sex. then u've gotta want a realtionship at least as much as you want sex. probably more. if you do, u'll find a girl who actually likes you and is thefore going to say "okay" to some of the extras. if not, ur gonna spend ur time lusting after the busty slapper ull never get, or sleep with some fat slag whos as desperate for some, and as indiscriminate about where she gets it from as you appear to be.

"So Schrodinger's Cat is not only neither dead nor alive, but might also be sexually aroused by elbows and peanut butter?"

if sex and money equaled happin ess, then wouldnt prostitutes be the happiest people in the world?
and i resent you saying that Females go for the players/badboys/jerks/assholes that treat them and everything around the like shit, hence why the ncie guys always lose.

because not all do, ass hole.

"I'd rather be superstitious about jumping jacks than superstitious that I needed to be drunk to do what I needed to do, or that I needed to have a specific pair of underwear on - jumping jacks, you don't need anything. - Gerard Way"

and i am far from ugly and i am in the top 1% of the nation when it comes to intelligence. I scored high enough to be in MENSA when i was 9. the only reason i spell things wrong s because this keyboard is jacked up.

"I'd rather be superstitious about jumping jacks than superstitious that I needed to be drunk to do what I needed to do, or that I needed to have a specific pair of underwear on - jumping jacks, you don't need anything. - Gerard Way"

Strangler: Your belief that the world revolves around sex because the media plays that denotes a conditioning you have permitted yourself to fall victim to. The conept of having a trophy or sugar mama is attractive only to those that don't believe they were actually attain it.

This is because a trophy or sugar mama is attractive only in reality whilst other people envy you. If no one looked up to that sort of thing, you would not desire it.

Hence, if you wish to be a "man", you should ask yourself why you want what you seem to want... is it because the world has made you loathe yourself because you fall short compared to the bullshit ideology that they portray? Or is it because you really want to have a slut to bang.

Because it sounds like you don't like girls, or sluts, or anything to do with females... yet you yearn for their attention.

"Hating everyone protects me from elitism."

fnck off, i was not suggesting that the intelligent people are unattractive physically, i said that are generally very few genuine beauties, and the ones who get noticed, are generally the more bimbo type, who spend their time trying to accentuate it. i think my gf is beatiful, there are others who may look better, but only because they are constantly trying, and concentrate on nothing else. my gf looks good, but when she has put in the effort and got all dressed up, she is at least the equal of those i mentioned before.

the reason that strangler thinks all girls go for players, is cos he wants his "sugar mama" for a trophy, and any girls willing to be a trophy is generally looking for a trophy herself, and that means money, looks, or sexual prowess

"So Schrodinger's Cat is not only neither dead nor alive, but might also be sexually aroused by elbows and peanut butter?"

thank you for clearing up that comment.

"I'd rather be superstitious about jumping jacks than superstitious that I needed to be drunk to do what I needed to do, or that I needed to have a specific pair of underwear on - jumping jacks, you don't need anything. - Gerard Way"