When will the pain of heartache go away?

When will the pain of heartache go away? [+ favourites]

My husband left me a few weeeks ago, and realizes he doesn't love me anymore. He left while i was at work took all his stuff and left a note. I tried to go home to my family and he's telling me to stay and lets see if things can work out. I'm not hearing the things i need to hear nor anything that would lead me to believe he's coming back. The doctor's got me dopped up on so much meds, don't they know all the meds in the world can't heal a broken heart. When will the pain go away?

it will never go away, but you will learn to deal with it in your own way.

"UNIX is an operating system, OS/2 is half an operating system, Windows is a shell, and DOS is a boot partition virus. ~Peter H. Coffin"

when someone you love hurts you like that people tend to say time heals all wounds and things of that the nature....the truth is that it's always going to hurt, you will never just forget about it, but time does tend to ease the pain, it usually becomes less and less as days and weeks go by.....the longer you've been together thr longer it may take....im sorry for your pain but almost everyone gets their heart broken, and we survive it.....you just have to except it and move on with your life

"we are the music makers, and we, are the dreamers of dreams"

Stop take a logical look at what you are doing you know that eventually you will carry on with your life and over time look back at this situation and think that was fucked up……….now knowing this why wait why not wake up tomorrow like yesterday was 3 years ago….

There will always be something of him inside of you broken hearts always leave scars
Ironically when your heart gets damaged the scars never heal(medically speaking)

""Veritatem quaere et insaniam inveni""

It will heal, and in time you will understand the reasons all of it happened, you will understand why you didn't see it coming before, you will see the mistakes you made and the mistakes he made. You will understand all the hundreds of influences that propagated this change in your life and it will simply dissolve into something that was meant to happen.

The pain will dissapear eventually, and you will no longer be scarred. You should find support in loved ones and not use meds... they only delay the innevitable. Distance yourself from him for he is not taking care of you. Don't let your fear of loneliness abuse you.

"Hating everyone protects me from elitism."

Last night he flat out told me it's over and he wants a divorce, it killed me inside. I really felt like i was going to die right then and there. It's amazing how much pain we can take without actually dropping dead. Isn't it?

It is always amazing when you find out it can get worse.

"Hating everyone protects me from elitism."

i might not have been inthe same exact place. but last year i was in love and it was mutual. we were ingaged and planing the wedding. then something happen that change every thing my mother forbid me from seeing him. since i was 17 years old i had to listen. on august 30 it will be ayear since she said those sad words to me and i am still not over him. i used to cry every nite and i still cry now

"shit happens"

i felt so empty and lose when it happened. like i wasn't suposse to be happy

"shit happens"