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Okay so im not happy, actually I haven’t been really happy with my life for some time now
I feel shitty all the time….im so god dam lonely all I want is a relationship someone to love someone that will love me back is that too much to fucking ask. This is what i attribute my foul feeling way to, or maybe im deluding myself yet again. My job pisses me off I work like 13-15 hours a day and im not paid very well. My skin is permanently fucked thank you eczema I mean who is going to want to wake up next to a pile of skin in the morning, my sinuses are fucked my vision is fucked the only thing that isn’t getting fucked is well ME

What the hell do I do?

""Veritatem quaere et insaniam inveni""

I'm sorry you feel so down!!! Even though your life may seem rough now, it will get better. You just have to keep holding your head up!!! And one thing i know, despite all the the other bad attributes, is that you are a deep thinker(i know this from where i was reading some of the stuff you had written). you seem very intellegent and that will get you far in life!!! Sorry, once again that you are feeling so unhappy with eveything, and if you need someone to talk to you can talk to me!!!

well......im sorry but sometimes life just blows.....i mean it sux that you have exima...no idea how to spell it....but isn't there medication you can take for that.....all that keep your head up stuff doesnt help much, i know that from people saying that shit to me when i've been really down...truth is it will get better if you make it better....find a different job,talk to more chicks, eventually one will be interested, you do seem smart and your probably a cool person....so....for now suck it up, do what you can to change your situation, and hope for the best.....im sorry if that sounds mean but it's the best advice i can offer.....

"we are the music makers, and we, are the dreamers of dreams"

life does suck. there are worse off people than you and there are better off people than you. always have been, always will be.

try to focus on the good things you have. if you become confident in where you are in life, you can progress a lot more smoothly. eczema isnt the worst thing in the world, my sister has a very bad case of it. relationships are hard work, enjoy your single life, it could end tomorrow for all you know. you will always be alone of course, the sooner you come to terms with that, the sooner you can have a meaningful relationship.

you can always get a new job. if you ever feel stuck like you cant afford to leave, its probably time to leave anyway.

"I am Akba-Atatdia"

i agree with wyote, there are people out there with worse situations and are living. that's the key YOU ARE ALIVE. So get some antidepessants and get out there and live. Only you can change your situation, don't count on a relationship to bring you happiness. I know it sounds corny, but you are what you make yourself. If you keep the "fucked" attitude, it will only stay that way. I am sure you have so much more to offer than a bed full of dead skin. Good luck.

I'll tell you my secret solution that isn't often explained or really understood:

Use logic to understand "pain".

Everything you are feeling is a result of your upbringing and environment. THe more you understand about your past and what has lead up to your bad situation, the more you will actually feel more peaceful, productive, and energized.

A relationship, money, or anything else like that just serves as distraction, not a solution. And you'll hang onto that distraction for dear life once you get it, so you should actually be happy you don't.

"Hating everyone protects me from elitism."

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A relationship, money, or anything else like that just serves as distraction, not a solution.

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""If a man takes no thought about what is distant, he will find sorrow near at hand." --Confucius"