Touching a Girl

Ok I have been going out with a girl for almost a month and this is the first more or less serious relationship I have ever been in.

When we make out, I sometimes put my hand on her chest, but when I do I feel bad like I am violating her.

Im sure she doesnt feel the same way so am I crazy?

probably not crazy, just in need of some extra reassurance. try asking her questions as you do things... "how does this feel?" "do you like this?" and so forth. dont get annoying though, if she says she likes it then run with it and have a good time. there is absolutely no reason for you not to.

Wyote's right. Ask her how she feels. I can see how her not giving you any feedback would make you feel like a violator. Unfortunately, most girls tend to not saying anything unless it feels bad (which puts you in an awkward position). Just try to get to lines of communication open. Tell her you like it when she kisses your neck (or whatever) and ask her what she likes. It might take a bit to get used to it, but it will be well worth it.

ok......as a woman....if she didnt like it or didnt want you to do it she would probably tell you...i would,or maybe she would give you a subtle signal, like moving your hand....you could also talk to her and find out how comfortable she is with you and how far she wants to go....SURPRISE....women like physical relationships just as much as men....she may even be wanting more from you,but is too shy to tell you