friend with benifits

see i have this guy friend that i like very much and he likes me. we made out once nothing special or anything but now he is avoiding spending time with me

Probably feels uncomfortable around you now, doesn't know whether you want more out of it or not....if you want to continue to be friends, just make him feel comfortable. If you want more then show him, he might just not know where you want to take it.

that what sucks thought. he always act like he has something to do but he is with his freind and that great but he comuld just tell me he going to hanh with friends

could age have any thing to do with him being so standoffish he is three years younger

Could be....there could be alot of reasons, but he could be just handling it from a 15 year olds perspective...and maybe that means being standoffish.

Try playing hard to get and flip the script on him.....that works more than you would think.

hes fifteen, all he cares about are his buddies and jerking people around for his amusement

some guys never grow out of that phase

I think it's age. A 15 year old boy usually has little concept of how to act around girls. I think a lot of guys that age get totally freaked out by the thought of girls. There defense mechanism is to retreat back to their friends hardcore. Think back to like when you had your first boyfriend and he would forgo hanging out with you at lunch to pall around with his buds and act like jerks. Same concept.

Forget him, he's a child.

i agree with wyot....you should probably just find someone else to hook up with....and why would you want to be with a 15 year old boy anyway...arent you 18?

dont know about other guys, but i wasnt scared or anything. its just the fact that my friends were a whole lot more interesting to me. i wanted good friends and good discussions and all the girls i knew werent able to give me that. they were boring. most still are.

Ha! That's so interesting, Wyote. I think most girls are boring as well. But I don't think that most 15year olds are as introspective as you were at that age.

HEY....excuse me but not all are girls are boring....just like not all guys are perverts who just want to fuck you....i think your judgeing us women a little too harshly

i'm glad i have some prospective now, but it not easy to not get involved with someone mature enough. when your still in high school and your around people that are at the most a year yonger then you

i guess know that he is bored he wants to meet with me but i dont think i should i dont want to hurt my self with something i cant fully like

Dont go, his friends probably told him to meet up with you to probably made a fool out of you. Thats the problem with kids these days (even though i am one) that they listen to their friends and aways take their opinions. He probably thinks he would be so cool if he dumped a 18 year old, and infact, dating one. forget him while you can and score for people more your age (Just a sugesstion) And plz dont judge me by my age