Women Hate Me

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it sounds funny, but its true. ive spent my life in the wake of other more "impressive" males. ive tried just about everything ...mostly ive just tried to be myself though. ive never tried to impress women, and maybe thats where ive gone wrong. im pretty much a "like me as i am" type. every relationship i have been in i have felt like i give much more then i get. i wear my heart on my sleeve, im very open, and i have more emotions in my left pinky then half the guys out there have in their entire body. i could swear that all women are masochistic too, because whenever i treat them like shit they always come back for more, but when im nice (which is 99% of the time) they leave me in the dust, or even end up treating me like shit.

so im sick of it, with every fiber of my being. they all hate me for no god damn reason, so paybacks a bitch and thats all i have to say about that.
~end rant~

"UNIX is an operating system, OS/2 is half an operating system, Windows is a shell, and DOS is a boot partition virus. ~Peter H. Coffin"

Easy Wyote. Ok so most women are masochistic but there are alot of us out here that like a man that will treat us like we deserve. I think that you are just looking in all the wrong places and I also think that you should never ever quit being yourself for anyone. Keep up the rant and just remember there are some of us out here that still love an understanding open man.

"Life is like a box of chocolate you never know what you will get!"

Fantastic response, Cowgirl.

Wy, females in their late teens early 20’s might like to date the bad boy type, but they certainly don’t want a serious relationship with them. There’s a certain notability to being that one female that can tame that bad ass. Which is silly because she shouldn’t expect to change him, just like you shouldn’t change for anyone.

You’re a good-looking guy with an outstanding personality. Someday, a woman will come along and you’ll be exactly what she’s looking for.

thanks ladies, ive heard this stuff before, but its been a while... anyway im over my frustrations... for now

"UNIX is an operating system, OS/2 is half an operating system, Windows is a shell, and DOS is a boot partition virus. ~Peter H. Coffin"

Unfortunately, the whole "keep looking" approach doesn't help anyone.

Wyote, you're confused because they seem to desire what isn't good for them, and that doesn't make sense, right?

I mean, masochism is sort of okay, as long as you know you'll be okay in the long run. But it isn't masochism (according to me) if you do it without the awareness that you seek to be abused, and also if it isn't a temporary thing.

The question is, therefore, why do most women like men with tattoos, with bikes, who drink, who sleep around, and who have dead end jobs?

I theorize that most women consider themselves victims... they seek prince charming, but after that first guy that broke her heart, she's been fueling the same vice over and over, which is self-victimization.

ie, if it is the world that is evil, then they themselves are simply pawns in the great circle of life. This is very beneficial when you keep dating an asshole, because you can keep working the dead end job that you hate because "it was the world that put you there".

Am I making sense?

A good way to avoid women specifically like the ones you seem to be encountering is to almost mathematically rule out women that do not have a lust for their lives... ones that are sort of neutral about their future, ones that don't work jobs they like (even if they say they do), and women who have a history of abuse in their lives.

It sounds harsh, but my friend, if you haven't learnt it already, it isn't your job to rehabilitate anyone.

So, from here, you will go one of three ways:

1. Eventually loosen your expectations and find a woman that is better than all the girls you've met, but is still a game player that will suck you dry.

2. Hold out indefinitely, cursing your life to doubts and loneliness but with the slight possiblity of meeting a girl that is in control of her jadedness.

3. Give into the game and become an abusive guy that most women love.

"Hating everyone protects me from elitism."

Decius, that was wonderful, my friend!

They're bitches with me too if it makes you fell better.

"Durch Nacht und Blut das Licht"

thanks Decius, your thoughts are very similar to my own, but you are much more articulate than myself...

direction number 1 seems to be the best one for me, but until a couple years ago i was stuck going in direction 2... this rant was basically me reverting back to my old habits.

"UNIX is an operating system, OS/2 is half an operating system, Windows is a shell, and DOS is a boot partition virus. ~Peter H. Coffin"

I was hoping it was #3 that you were reverting to...

but many more men seem to find fulfillment in #1.

"Hating everyone protects me from elitism."

heh, looking back at my original post, it does appear that im headed toward #3, but i make empty threats on a frequent basis, mostly to be humorous. the truth is i couldnt hurt anyone even if i wanted to, im so short and light that if i started any kind of shit with anyone, they could probably just pick me up and throw me out of my wheelchair and that would be the end of that chapter.

"UNIX is an operating system, OS/2 is half an operating system, Windows is a shell, and DOS is a boot partition virus. ~Peter H. Coffin"

I seem to have spent my life in #2.

Frustrating.

I was wondering how women feel about this too?

Do they feel trapped in the choices they have with males?

I always have experienced men as the ones that do best in the battle of the sexes.

The fact you mention Wyote, that most women go for the guys who treat them bad, means the majority of women are being screwed over most of the time. While you and I sit back and are upset that they could be with us who treat them nice.

There never seems to be a balance.

If the world was Yin Yang as it should be, we would all feel the desire to treat others nicely and all be treated the same, therefore all being happy in our relationships.

"When I was a child I flew! Then as an adult- I watched others soar."

Trying to figure out women. It's actually impossible. No like seriously it is. They make no sense because what they say is different then how they feel and there is no way to determine how someone really feels. You can guess but unless they actually say something there's no real way of knowing. I think deep down girls are really kinky but are just afraid of what other people will think about them if they let that kinkiness out. That's why I think every girl just wants a good fucking. A good hard fucking every now and then.

"I love to see people struggling for their purpose in life..."

"Boo hoo! Women hate me!" Hate them back. They deserve nothing less.

Man, fuck bitches! They are all loopy, crazy, and fucking stupid. All you see them as is a bag of tits, anyways, and all they see you as is a cock. Women in their 20's, and female teenagers, all just want casual sex, and the ones that don't have been spending too much time in their little hidey holes to get with the game, and nobody really wants anything to do with them as it is.

It's the poor fools that want commitment and relationships that always end up getting fucked, but not in the way that counts.

Here's a little advice for you. Women are all hussies. Every last goddamn one of them. But, they all know there comes a time in their life where they'll become fat, ugly, and old, and can no longer resort to being a hussy without the aid of alcohol. That's when they decide to settle their asses down and tie up some poor loser to help them pay the bills, and possibly pop out a few accidental fuck-trophies along the way.

The younger couples you see that are married only got married in the first place because their backs were against the fucking wall due to an accidental pregnancy.

Romantic love is a lie! And there is no real happiness to be attained through it.

Get your fucking head out of La-La Land, and realize that you ain't getting any pussy unless you're hot, rich, or in a band. Don't obsess over bitches, honestly. It's not worth all the self-doubt, aggrivation, and heartache.

Never trust a beautiful woman, especially one that's interested in YOU. They're all out looking for the bigger better deal, and they don't truly give a flying fuck about whose heart they step all over in order to attain that. They're all garbage, and your life will be much better off without them. They're every bit as disgusting and pathetic as their opposite gender.

Seriously, no woman will ever enrich your life unless you are a truly capable of enriching their shallow life first, and honestly, not many of them actually deserve to have anything like that in their life to begin with.

So, if you just want to get your dick wet, then by all means, find a prostitute, or some drunken beer slut, and get it over with. Have fun with the STDs, or the potential family that may come out of your little night of fun, though.

And the bitches that want to tame the so-called "bad-boys". HAHAHAHAHAHA! What kind of fucking tripe is that? Okay, so let me get this straight. Are you saying that women actually pride themselves on their ability to manipulate and influence the thoughts and behaviors of others? WOW! I had no idea women were all that fucking pathetic. . . . oh wait, yes I did!

I really would just like to tell you Decius, that was pretty impressive. At first I thought to myself, " I honestly feel that I found someone loving without lowering my expectations and who trully appreciates my kindness and love." Then I thought, "Maybe not."

Im only 19 and found my girlfriend at 18 so I dont have much standing here, but I did hold out for her. So, that could be encouraging.

"Wht cry for those that often cry? Instead, help them smile, and smile for those that smile."

Complaint,
I have never found exception to any post here, and have never shown aggression to anyone on this forum.

But its because of Neanderthals like you that everyone ends up with broken hearts. Your attitude does nothing but perpetuate the cycle.

And the way Im feeling right now, If I could get to you, Id fucking castrate you with a tin opener.

"When I was a child I flew! Then as an adult- I watched others soar."