She will be 13 tomorrow. I think we have a contract with the State of Wyoming, that says something like " if you kid needs a home and we know them, send them on". It is a long story, but she is better off with us, instead of where she could have landed. I have no problem taking in children at all. I have not met a bad kid, some may be misdirected but usually a little bit of love can do alot, along with listening.
They are due any day, we are hoping not on Junior's B-day although that would be kinda neat, but that is his special day.
You are VERY right, I wouldn't give up my kids, or grandkids without more of a fight that anyone could imagine. Besides, I have great family connections.