What do you do?

What do you do? [+ favourites]

I got a letter yesterday intended for the soon to be ex. I opened it just to be nosey, and well I wish I wouldn't have. I don't know what to do, he has a bad liver and high cholestrol (all the good and bad). Do I just let him go and not say anything? or Do I give up the happiness I have started to enjoy? My kids are all nervous, upset, and don't know what to do. I feel as though, I have done my part and I am NOT a sympathy giver at all. But do I let him not enjoy his last bit of time close to his kids, or do I just give in and move closer so he can see them?

Life Sucks!

"Enjoy your family as they are our lives."

Wanted or not here is my opinion.

Being the vengeful lil bitch that I am I would just keep going my own way and not give a shit bout him. However, maybe you could compromise. Don't just give in and get closer and what ever but stay close enough like maybe the same town or city so that he can still be with the kids and have his time with them. What do the kids want? Do they still want anything to do with him? I'm not looking for answers there for me, just giving you something to think about in your decision making. Keep in mind to that wrong wasn't done just by you but by those kids too. Keep in mind of what they want to a point. For instance if they still want him in their lives let him but don't stay with him just because that may be what they want. Take into consideration your happiness and theirs.

Em

""Live life to the fullest!""

*agrees with Em*

"The more you suffer, the more it shows you really care .... right ?"

couldnt have worded it better Em

"UNIX is an operating system, OS/2 is half an operating system, Windows is a shell, and DOS is a boot partition virus. ~Peter H. Coffin"