'As long as we think that animals don't feel, then we'll have to feel that humans don't think' - tangy-orange
Captain Cynic Guides
Administrative Contact
Talk Talk
Philosophy Forum
Religion Forum
Psychology Forum
Politics & Current Events Forum
Science & Technology Forum
Health & Wellness Forum
Sexuality & Intimacy Forum
Product Reviews
Stories & Poetry Forum
Art Forum
Movie/TV Reviews
Jokes & Games
Photos, Videos & Music Forum

Moving on

User Thread
 48yrs • F •
A CTL of 1 means that lynniepoohs is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
Moving on
Strange question for you all. How long after a divorce do you think it is safe to start dating again? If you do right away does that make you appear as though you have been cheating or already involved with another person?

Just curious about your opinions.


| Permalink
"Enjoy your family as they are our lives."
 34yrs • F •
A CTL of 1 means that [MiA] is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
well
first of all it's never safe to start dating again because you'll probably get hurt again ..... and i wouldn't call it cheating as long as you don't feel guilty, so say if it was the wife that "wasn't happy with the marriage" and divorced her husband and then started dating RIGHT AWAY i'd call that cheating because there was someone in her mind that she wanted to date while being married and got a divorce to do so instead of working out the marriage problems... but if her husband starts dating after the divorce i wouldn't call it cheating because he wanted to stay with her and he didn't even think about leaving her ...and starting dating just to have some fun would be a way to for him not to think of his problems.
and you can start dating again whenever you feel like it. i prolly wouldn't for a few months or even more ... heh my mom started a long time before the divorce i think ..... so i guess it's a very personal thing ?

| Permalink
"The more you suffer, the more it shows you really care .... right ?"
 44yrs • F •
A CTL of 1 means that pv_emerald14 is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
Knowing more of the situation I would say that you have every right to start dating again whenever you wish to. There is nothing wrong with it. Best of luck to you!


| Permalink
""Live life to the fullest!""
 34yrs • M •
A CTL of 1 means that Angelfire is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
You're divorced, you can start doing whatever you fancy IMO.

| Permalink
"Durch Nacht und Blut das Licht"
 41yrs • M •
A CTL of 1 means that wesdawgy is a contributing member of Captain Cynic.
The only thing that I would say to be careful of, is make sure that it is really over...if the marriage isn't completely all the way, I'm never going back to that poerson ever, then you shouldn't date seriously until you know for sure.

It will end up causing problems if you ever get back with that person. IMO.

| Permalink
"I'd like to say something profound....."SOMETHING PROFOUND""
Moving on
  1  
About Captain Cynic
Common FAQ's
Captain Cynic Guides
Contact Us
Terms of Use
Privacy Policy
General Forum Rules
Cynic Trust Levels
Administrative Contact Forum
Registration
Lost Password
General Discussion
Philosophy Forums
Psychology Forums
Health Forums
Quote Submissions
Promotions & Links
 Captain Cynic on Facebook
 Captain Cynic on Twitter
 Captain Cynic RSS Feed
 Daily Tasker
Copyright © 2011 Captain Cynic All Rights Reserved.   Terms of Use   Privacy Policy