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Strange question for you all. How long after a divorce do you think it is safe to start dating again? If you do right away does that make you appear as though you have been cheating or already involved with another person?
Just curious about your opinions.
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well first of all it's never safe to start dating again because you'll probably get hurt again ..... and i wouldn't call it cheating as long as you don't feel guilty, so say if it was the wife that "wasn't happy with the marriage" and divorced her husband and then started dating RIGHT AWAY i'd call that cheating because there was someone in her mind that she wanted to date while being married and got a divorce to do so instead of working out the marriage problems... but if her husband starts dating after the divorce i wouldn't call it cheating because he wanted to stay with her and he didn't even think about leaving her ...and starting dating just to have some fun would be a way to for him not to think of his problems. and you can start dating again whenever you feel like it. i prolly wouldn't for a few months or even more ... heh my mom started a long time before the divorce i think ..... so i guess it's a very personal thing ?
"The more you suffer, the more it shows you really care .... right ?"
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The only thing that I would say to be careful of, is make sure that it is really over...if the marriage isn't completely all the way, I'm never going back to that poerson ever, then you shouldn't date seriously until you know for sure.
It will end up causing problems if you ever get back with that person. IMO.
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