ok... i once in this relationship n now it's over she's with someone else n so am i but lately we sorta got back together n we havent told our partners yet.. so technically we cheated on our partners so what should i do.. dump my gurl now n get back with my ex.. or stay with my gurl at teh same time be with my ex?? or let my ex go n stay with my gurl?
You each need to get rid of one or the other unless both relationships are open ones. Think about what broke you two up to begin with and who you really want to be with. But at the same time you're still young so play and have fun but don't go hurting those that you really care for. And always remember that if it's meant to be then it will be. Happiness is one of the keys to any relationship. Think about what will make everyone the happiest. Hope that this helps some.
Number 1 I don't think people that cheat should be giving advice to you Akexis. Once a cheater always a cheater. Some people will do it with anyone and don't care who they are.
Number 2 You need to think about whether or not you want to be with either one of them or if you just enjoy the attention that you are receiving. Playing the field isn't a wise idea you get a bad rep, and some do truely deserve it.
I'm no Dear Abby or Ann Landers and can't give advice for something I know nothing of the circumstances of the breakup of your ex. But my opinion...and it's only my opinion...I would stay with your present girl. your ex had her chance but it always takes two. If you care about the girl you have now and she cares about you then that should answer your question
i know i'm smart lol 