friends with benefits?? or not

friends with benefits?? or not [+ favourites]

i have a friend who is 21 and i am 18...but i really like him..A LOT and he says that he likes me too and we do act like we are more than "just friends" but today i found out that he slept with his ex and i am really hurt...i don't know what to do or think..we weren't official but i still liked him a lot and now he is not talking to me is it stupid of me to still like him or should i stop talking to him??

Yeah, he is just looking for some ass. If your hurt by this, then you should try and move on. Cut contact with him until your ok. It will be hard but Im sure you wont regret it later on when you dont get really screwed over.

http://www.captaincynic.com/thread/64285/freinds-with-benefits-i-think-no
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A conversation about it we had awhile ago.

"Wht cry for those that often cry? Instead, help them smile, and smile for those that smile."

man , some guys are suchhh assholes. I sorta know the situatuion, minus the ages. lol. we hook up and he acts like he likes me i like him sooo much. then he goes and gets a girlfirend. lol i think that if he did that to you and know wont talk to you . no offencce he just wants some. and you dont deserve that at all. girls cant let guys get what they want cause they like them it just makes them think its okay to treat us like shit and use us. thats what I think, i may be wrong but anyway hope this helps, even though you posted this a while ago.

"the greatest thing youll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return"