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The pink girl with the mohawk

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66 Posts / 43M
     :   22yrs   :  
firstright89

The pink girl with the mohawk [+ favourites]

so yes i like this grl who has pink hair and a mohawk even though her hair has nothing to do with this post. ive liked this girl for a good three months now (i met her online first) and just this wkend i met her in person. shes a very interesting grl shes all uber punk and all i personally am ecletic rocker. but anyways i liked her and all.

so we go to this venue to watch some hardcore punk stuff and i brought alchohol u know. Jager and schnapps. she drank pretty much of it and by the second band i can say she was pretty induced with inebriation. and then at the end of one the songs she starts kissing me (not the other way around.) and of course i kiss her back and all because i like her an all. and then the band ends and she still sobering and she puts her head on my shoulder trying to recover. and we watch another band kiss some more.then band ends we go outside she lays down id say she was more sober than before so she tells me she wouldve made out with me if she wasnt drunk. i believe it then and especiall now (but thats for later.) the bands end, she leaves with the friend that brought her. i sit around not really thinking about all this because i was sobering enough so i can get on base and barracks room alright. i didnt leave till the bar was closed completely. go back sleep . end day

well today i talked to her online and she says that she wouldve kissed me anyways even if she wasnt drunk. and she tells me she has a b/f something i really havent paid attention to.(i guess thats it i just didnt know.) Well as u can guess im really fucking confused now
whats my move. i know i want love badly and have never had it and i really like her but she has a boy. and its not me. whats my next move for her. or what i need help or consolation.


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168 Posts / 42M
     :   21yrs   :  
mindfields19

Word of advice...

If someone cheats on their boyfriend or girlfriend with you or SAYS they will cheat/break up for you, that is a good indication that they would turn around and do the exact same thing to you in the future. If you want to believe her, fine. You will live with the consequences, whether they are good or bad..


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2902 Posts / 95M
     :   28yrs   :  
Decius

She is a short term person.

You appear to be more long term than her.

This means that in every interaction you two have, she will see and seek the short term benefit and you will see and seek the long term benefit.

Just imagine how shallow your interactions would be from her perspective compared to yours by empathizing with that.

Furthermore... did it ever occur to you that she told you she has a boyfriend to confuse you and keep you on a leash?

Yes my friend. The world is a horrible place. Better to know about the systems in place before you get grinded by them.


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856 Posts / 43M
     :   21yrs   :  
Jacker_Jones

Tap that ass...So what if she dumps you in a few months/weeks/days/hours you'll regret it if you don't. Honestly all that morals and such is just a cover up for you to chicken out. But, what I'm confused about is that usually girls mention boyfriends to either A get rid of you or B for you to get aggressive. Just curious what you meant Decius.


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2902 Posts / 95M
     :   28yrs   :  
Decius

If she has a "boyfriend" the following apply:

1. She has the freedom to hang out with you whenever she wishes to and the freedom not to whenever she "can't".

2. You will never be able to seek out a commitment from her because she "has a boyfriend".

3. She has a "get out of jail free" card. So when she eventually suddenly ignores you she has an extremely guilt free way of doing it.

4. Because of the above you will never have the power to make demands or judge her correctly. It is the advent of being "whipped" because you always want more.

5. Linked to #4, if she has a boyfriend and you want her then you're always a lot more vulnerable to her leaving you than you are to her.

This ties in extremely accurately with her saying over and over that she would have kissed you even if she wasn't drunk. Her sub-conscious is trying to hook you, but still keep you on a line. When it all goes to shit, she won't feel guilty because she clearly told you that she has a boyfriend.

And ironically her boyfriend probably treats her the exact same way she treats you: Cheats on her, gives her low priority, but keeps her liking him by once in a while making her feel special.

Stay away bro! I knew a girl like that.... she had herpes and I called her "Heppy"!

Do you have any idea what the fuck Herpes can do to your balls? Pink mohawk or not, do you want cauliflower itchiness whenever you take a piss???

Run you fucker! Run!


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66 Posts / 43M
     :   22yrs   :  
firstright89

i dont know i cant help but make the wrong decision and i do and dont at the same time no why. i dont know what is . mabye its the fact she doesnt talk to her bf or that her bf hasnt talked to her at all even though shes on crutches
oh yeah she is now a a pink mohawked hair girl with crutches. but oh well at least i mite something out of it but it will be out of pure selfishness if i do


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856 Posts / 43M
     :   21yrs   :  
Jacker_Jones

Whatever don't eat yourself up about it...Shit happens. Besides a ho's a ho and "you can't make a ho a house wife." Simple as that.


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