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Awakendwraith's Pain

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2827 Posts / 91M
     :   28yrs   :  
Decius

You do but you fear finding that person and so you sabotage it.

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I just honestly don't think many people are.


This is true, but that's not the problem. The problem is you choose to assume the bad in even those that aren't to preserve a consistent outlook on life that has been prescribed by your parents.

The priority is realizing that just because your parents were innadequate, the rest of the world will not be. This is difficult because your parents somewhat create and maintain what your vision of reality is. You must dissasociate yourself from this and truly view yourself as an individual. When you do this you will be able to judge them with a more rational sense of self-preservation that has nothing to do with anger or resentment.

In essence, your parents are supposed to set the bar for the limit of how much you as their child are able to be loved because they are supposed to love you more than anyone else. Unfortunately, this is not the case. You must accept that even though they are incapable of loving you properly, someone else might. You must choose not to permit them to set the bar for how valuable you are able to be in someone else's eyes.

It makes logical sense. You must just tell yourself this day in and day out and eventually it will begin to take form and shape in your mind.


"Hating everyone protects me from elitism."

130 Posts / 39M
     :   19yrs   :  
spiderz

decuis, u prove that sometimes even really smart people can be so pathetically thick. more retarted than u, u dnt no the first thing about me. otha than that ive acknowledged that can b a mean bastard.


"There is a thin line between bravery and stupidity"

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2827 Posts / 91M
     :   28yrs   :  
Decius

Isn't it odd that you know I'm a bastard yet I can't know that you're retarded?


"Hating everyone protects me from elitism."

1677 Posts / 37M
     :   20yrs   :  
awakendwraith

When I tell you this you must listen and you must understand, without qeustion, that I am right.

I do not sabotage any relationship I am in, especially not this one.

My parents have not formed any standard in my mind. I know that they are the worst kind, and that most kind are not as bad as they are. My parents have had very little to do with my outlook on life.

These sound like words that apply to her, not me.

The reason why you must KNOW that I am right, is because even though it makes logical sense, it is not what is happening here. Even though it all sounds good on paper, there are things that you do not know, and things that you are not taking into account. Those are the things that make you wrong. Those are things that I know, that you have no possible way of knowing. And not because of an extreme or anything like that, btu because this is the internet and you don't know me. Plain and simple.

Now.

Knowing that you are wrong about that, what do you think it could be?


And please delete all the posts between you two. They are completely irrelivent and insulting.


"Wht cry for those that often cry? Instead, help them smile, and smile for those that smile."
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1677 Posts / 37M
     :   20yrs   :  
awakendwraith

I am dissapointed Decius.. Again.


"Wht cry for those that often cry? Instead, help them smile, and smile for those that smile."

40 Posts / 34M
     :   19yrs   :  
Xaej

It is true that your relationship with your parents can form a basis for every relationship for the rest of your life, but that doesn't mean that that basis cannot be broken. Knowing awakenedwraith personally, I feel 100% confident in saying that his relations with this girl we're not based upon inside scars put upon him from his parents, rather just pure love. Love doesn't need reason or cause, it just is.

- Xaej


"I'm just a normal boy, that sank when I went overboard"

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