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Problem with you Evilia is you definitely have an aggressive stance towards criticism.
Really, the people that care about you the most are the ones most likely to criticize you. Also, the people who most likely want to put you down are also the ones likely to criticize you.
But if you bunch all of those people together, you're relying on your own experiences and observations to improve yourself, which is far less efficient than a joint effort. You're alienating people who would actually aid your life, make it better, and improve it.
Which is your choice and right. You know this and I shouldn't have to say it. But I say it to compell you to read what I'm writing without thinking that I'm saying it to insult you or put you down. Perhaps it's my effort in helping you.
An important aspect of punctuation and spelling and some sort of structure of information presentation is the ability for the reader to digest it. The more erroneous your presentation is, the less likely someone else is to understand your point.
Therefore, it is irrefutable to conclude that if someone knowingly types fast, or uncaringly, and organizes their thoughts in hard to read manners, they are either not sophisticated enough to organize them properly (or don't recognize the importance of this) or they do not value the information they are providing.
It is undeniable that if you were writing out a legal document or a resume you would not miss-spell, and you'd check your writing and your punctuation thoroughly. Why? To make the other person think you care about communicating to them who and what you are.
Similarly, although this is far less important, the effect is the same here. If you do not put the simple effort of punctuation and spelling into what you write, those reading it will most definitely regard it with less importance... primarily because you do.
Again, it is your choice to fix the spelling or the punctuation. It is your choice to take the time to write out your post. If you do, people will read it and take you and your words more seriously. If you do not, people won't. It doesn't matter to the people, but if you're here and your purpose is to communicate, it should matter to you.
Hence, both of the points I've brought up here (in regards to criticism and methods of communication) are critiques that will help you, and you only if you take them into consideration. That fact alone should tell you that my purpose is not to help anyone here, or myself, or my ego or your ego. It is simply to provide information that may help you evolve certain aspects of your life, which will improve and help you, and you only.
"Hating everyone protects me from elitism."
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