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First, I totally agree it's partly the woman's fault, after all, it takes two to tango, and I really believe that people should take contraception more seriously if they're not in a stable relationship. But, to add another thing, I think it's awful that some people don't stop to think about the bigger picture. It's not just the fact that some poor kid might have to grow up without a dad or practically in poverty, what about the half-brothers and sisters they would have, and how that could cause problems in the future on physical and emotional levels. For example, say now a guy has a few kids, and he's unaware of some, or all of them, and his son grows up and meets a nice young girl, settles down, marries, has kids, and then finds out that the girl he's in love with and procreated with, is actually his sister!!! That would blow most peoples minds if it happened to them, their marriage would be illegal, there would probably be birth defects with some or all of their kids, and they'd probably end up ending the relationship for moral reasons. So both their lives could be destroyed, even if they do get over it in time.......and I think this scenario is more real today than we even realise, and I bet there's loads of couples across the globe who are totally unaware of their situation.
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