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I am much older then you but my advice is at your age I was married the first time and I have learned a lot from being married twice in my lifetime so far.... I would kick them all to the curb, find your spirit in tac again and move forward as you may have learned a lesson from this that some people just want to hurt or torment others with their ways I feel we are all here to learn something in Karma type relationships and that true kindred soul relationships we have enough unconditional love to treat each other with kindness, love and respect... This is just my opinion and I know that you would be very hurt by what has happened. I myself was married to my ex the second husband and with him for almost 17 years and he said he would never hurt me, or leave or destroy our lives....well........... Christmas 2003 he decided he wanted to have a new life with someone else and left a month later and it was rough and tough but I have made it through spirit in place and now very happy and learning to live alone. I was told by a few friends that have been in a similar thing in their lives you have to learn to live alone first so that you will know a real relationship when it comes to you.. Hope this helps... Pauline
"Live Life In The Moments"
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