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"The more inteligent they think they are, the more they feel they must assert this inteligence at every available opportunity" Well, as humans, we try to show others who we are by our words and actions. It’s fun being able to see things in a way different from everybody else. You can leave people speechless this way. It’s fun. "Anyone who tries to make someone else feel bad about themselves is themselves insecure in that exact area." I disagree. I’m sarcastic at times. I poke fun at people when I know it won’t hurt them. I’ll make fun of my friend’s obsession over Indian movies when I don’t even care about them. I don’t do it to make her feel stupid or do it because I feel stupid. I make fun over things people obsess over, like makeup. However, there are the cruel intelligent people who make too many derogatory remarks. "Why does anyone think sarcasm is a good thing? The basis of it is to mock the other person for trusting you." Is sarcasm used to make the other person to feel insecure? Not necessarily. The mature sarcastic person knows not to make fun of everything even when he or she would like to. Sarcasm isn’t bad. Think of it as a tool, like a knife. You can use it for good purposes and evil purposes. But it has a negative connotation because people use to it hurt others. "i think to much of it can definately hinder a relationship and prevent it from going anywhere other than a surface level." Well, a person who makes a sarcastic comment is taking the issue lightly, so sarcasm is definitely not the key to a relationship, but it’s something to spice it up. There are times you can use it and times you definitely shouldn’t use it. Decius, you apparently have some issue with sarcastic people, but I feel like you’re generalizing and it hurts the good sarcastic people like me. Hm, after some more thinking, I realize that I mock others when I think they’re doing something I don’t agree with. So it’s a way of telling the other person that you don’t agree with them and what they’re doing is ridiculous. But I make sure I only do it when it’s something that isn’t too important for them.
"How can we be just in a world without mercy and merciful in a world without justice?"
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