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WOW! I have a strong opinion on this one. First of all, I am not a prude, by any stretch of the imagination. I agree that, from a man's perspective, there is an ideal dream floating out there about a beautiful woman who is VERY good at making a man feel like a god, and who's sexual charm and seduction is beyond compare. What could be better in this dream than having that woman very open and willing to have sex with you, right? However, if this woman/object in the dream becomes a reality, then we must also realize that she is a human being, and that she got to where she is because life has shown her that enjoyment comes from having sexual power over a man, or that sex is all she is worth, or worse. The problem here is that she has most likely lost her choice in the matter. Any woman that feels emotionally healthy inside would like to choose who she wants to be intimate with... and guys, if she is the object of our desires, then she is probably pretty enough to get any man she wants with or without money being involved. There is also the important aspect of the message prostitution sends to society about women. If it is okay to make one woman into a sex object, then it is okay to think of all women in that manner, thus effectively taking away other women's freedom of choice as well. Additionally, if it is okay for a well-funded and well-protected prostitute to use sex as a power trip over men, then the message is sent that the best way for a woman to get what she wants is to have sex with men. This takes away from any normal power a woman can have in a workplace, in social circles, etc. One reason women have historically fought so hard in the U.S. to have rights is because men have historically viewed them as property. We're trying to get beyond that as a nation (and maybe as a world), and in many ways have. That, and the spread of STD's are plenty reason to make prostitution illegal. I think if men need to have sex, then more energy should be spent on making themselves better. If you want to be treated like a god, then make yourself the object of the woman's desire! Surround yourself with people that uplift you. Take reasonable care in your appearance. Take chances and let normal women know you're interested in them as a person as well.
"Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll enjoy it a second time"
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