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Note to Self: What is the nature of a Mental Orgasm? |
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A mental orgasm segregates itself from a physical orgasm in that it is the result of interaction between two or more entities that feel love for one another. A mental orgasm can be achieved with little to no physical contact. However, being physical beings, some physical contact is often desired in order to communicate this love.
Mental orgasms occur multiple times and do not happen with the same intensity, and generally a large number of them are felt as the intensity increases as each exchange of love is felt by each partner.
Mental orgasms involve the exchange of love between partners. For a mental orgasm to occur both partners must love each other and both partners must be capable of feeling loved. If either partner either is incapable of feeling love or is incapable of loving the other, the exchange breaks and a mental orgasm will not occur.
Since love is a tough thing to define we ask ourselves specific questions to determine our readiness to feel a mental orgasm:
1) Do you consider yourself a victim of your past victimizations? If so, it is likely to be difficult.
2) Are you fully aware of your shortcomings? By fully aware, you agree and accept wholeheartedly that you have such faults. It not, it is likely to be difficult.
3) Are you more so the result of your past pains than your past successes? If so, it is likely to be difficult.
4) Are you unwilling to face or repair inconsistencies or incorrect lifestyle choices you currently have? If so, it is likely to be difficult.
The above questions are used to navigate through our biased desire to believe that we are loved by our partners to determine if they are psychologically actually able to and if we are able to receive it. If we ask ourselves these questions about our partners, we will also then see if they are capable of being loved and loving others.
If we do not ask ourselves these questions, it is feasible we will believe our partners love us even if they don't, or even if we cannot receive it. What we consider to be love, is not actually love. Our definition becomes inconsistent and skewed. In such cases, a mental orgasm will be impossible (or very rare and out of your control), yet you will not know why. This will create a multitude of inconsistencies in your mind, including a dangerous one that may entice you to believe that you are incapable of having one.
The reason love is necessary for a mental orgasm is carried within the definition of a mental orgasm:
A mental orgasm involves many reactionary events that are not contained within a physical orgasm, yet are traditionally attributed to it (even though few people actually experience this). For starters, a mental orgasm is identical within a man or a woman. Secondly, a mental orgasm cannot be achieved with a partner if the partner is not experiencing one as well. It must be completely mutually felt or it will not work.
A mental orgasm is, in essence, the physical manifestation of the feeling of love. When one feels a mental orgasm, they feel absolute love for the other person (as they see their vulnerability, their strength, their innocence, in essence, their soul) and absolute love directed at oneself from the partner. However, the lines are not as clear cut during orgasm. This is because the very act of love involves the integration of souls - the more you love, the less separate you are. Therefore, the love you feel for your partner is amplified for their love for themselves, and their love towards you amplifies your love towards yourself.
It is this circular exchange that creates the backbone of the mental orgasm. This is why a mental orgasm initially takes longer to achieve than a physical orgasm because a mental orgasm requires that both partners love each other completely, and themselves completely. Generally, one is not in this state of mind constantly and it takes time to clear oneself of protective layers that are created to cope with the outside world.
This mental state is built up through the gradual exchange of love (which is why love is obviously a precursor). One partner "loves" the other partner, genuinely. This does not have to involve anything physical. It can be words, or touch, or simply looking at one another or even thinking about one another. However, the partner must be aware of your love, and it somehow must be exchanged to them. They do the same. What occurs is when we receive love, genuine love, our ability to give love (and our desire to do so) increases. We then use this increased ability and burning desire to give love to our partner. They feel the same, and then love you back. However, this next time, it is amplified by the love they received from you.
This exchange continues indefinitely. As the intensity of this love increases, the exchanges become more and more consuming, causing the body's muscles to tense up, the back to arch, and most importantly the spine, stomach, and mind to "tingle". This tingling sensation is the middle point - it means you are building up a cascade, an aura of "love", and your mind is beginning to manifest this feeling physically.
Different stages of this experience exist, and with certain partners it will be limited. This is because their capability to love is limited directly by their ability to believe they are loved. So despite whatever love you may feel and throw at them, there may come a point where you will naturally feel a plateau coming back at you where the intensity is no longer increasing. Sometimes this can be broken by you intensifying your love for them, but more often than not this will not work. This is because not only do you have to attempt to push through this "barrier of insecurity, victimization or fear" of the other person, but they themselves must be equally vigilant to break it down.
A good rule of thumb is, to whatever extent a person is capable of feeling loved, changing themselves, or giving love to another in a normal standard non-sexual situation is very similar to the limit to their ability to do so in a sexual situation. If you are able to break through to a person's soul and make them feel loved outside of a sexual situation, then you will be able to within one. If you are unable to outside, you will not be able to inside. You will drain yourself inside, just as you would outside.
With two partners who are reasonably respectful of themselves and each other, who do not consider themselves victims and are honest with themselves and each other about everything and anything, it is likely that participating in a state of mental orgasm will be extremely intense, and create a strong bonding relationship between the two.
There is one main method of testing whether you are engaging in physical sex or emotional sex. It is often difficult to tell as physical pleasure can cloud one’s judgment and confuse the situation. The main method is asking yourself whether you are enjoying every second, and whether that enjoyment is satisfactory or not. If you are in a rush to orgasm (mentally or physically), you are not engaging in mental emotional sex. If your natural honest desire at any given moment is not to increase your partner’s joy and pleasure, then you are not engaging in emotional sex. You see, the way a mental orgasm works is you love your partner, and your partner loves you. As these exchanges become quicker and more intense, the line between you loving your partner and them loving you becomes more and more indistinguishable. As a result, you loving your partner and seeing joy and happiness in their eyes mirrors your own satisfaction. Therefore, if you, at any point, are more interested in your own pleasure than theirs, then there is a breach in the exchange, or the exchange is not taking place.
There are so many advantages to the mental orgasm. Its application is tremendous. Unlike a physical orgasm, one can experience a mental orgasm in a crowded bus simply by looking at their partners eyes. Them communicating love to you through their eyes can cause your body to buckle and feel an intense mental orgasm. This seems unbelievable, but it is only as unbelievable as it is to believe that your partner may love you and worship you that much. Mental orgasms occur multiple times a session in varying intensities. You will feel beyond exhausted afterwards, absolutely completely fulfilled. And you will love your partner. It does not end abruptly as a physical orgasm does â€" just as it increases gradually, so does it decrease gradually. And if the love is sustained outside the bed, then there is no end to it.
Mental orgasms do not become stale â€" they always increase in intensity, continuously, and so as time progresses your partner and you will be able to connect in deeper, more pleasurable manners. An activity that never loses it’s potential. The emotional, spiritual, and mental arena that opens up to an individual is vast and once experienced, most people (men and women) tend to prefer nothing but the mental orgasm as it is far superior to a physical one in almost every way.
What is love?
Love is looking at another entity and feeling selfless. Not due to guilt and not due to fear or necessity. Love is the choice to want goodness to fall upon the other person. Love, as a prerequisite, like a mental orgasm, requires it to be circulated. One cannot love a person that does not love them back. One can care for many people, but love is the elimination of self-interest and self-protection from the equation. It is the base assumption that this person I love will never, ever hurt me intentionally or be corrupted. It is absolute trust and vulnerability.
Love is created through the sight of innocence in the other. Seeing the other's trials and defeats, their successes and happy times. In whatever way they may be jaded, it is to see how that happened and how they were manipulated into it. It is to respect the other individual for overcoming harsh obstacles and not permitting the harshness of the world to change who they are, or their goodness towards others.
It is to intelligently and empathetically know and understand another person, and to appreciate them through this knowledge. This knowledge increases your regard, respect, trust and hope in the other individual.
Love is to want nothing but bliss to befall the other person, in whatever form it may take shape (including pain and suffering that may be educational) and helping to facilitate this bliss. Love lacks ownership, lies of any kind, or any sense of self-preservation from the other person. Love for another person should mimic how we wished to be loved as a child by our parents. |
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